Ryan O'Connor is Famously Dumped by his ex-husband. They met on BiggerCity.com, a place to find bigger men, and it went from hookup to living together to marriage very quickly. We talk about addiction, not being sexually compatible, and an open marriage ultimately destroying a relationship. Ryan really took this breakup a day at a time: staying sober, not being in contact and feeling the feelings. If he'd gotten drunk, he'd have killed him. Literally. Ryan's words. WE LOVE THIS EP!