Sometimes you have a limitation that you will never be okay with. Or maybe you have a limiting belief that you just can’t see any way past.
I used to have a tendency to repeat to myself “it’s okay it’s okay it’s okay”
Sometimes it helped. Sometimes it rang completely untrue and felt invalidating of my concerns.
Now I understand that I can accept that something IS without accepting that it is okay.
Accepting that something just fucking is stops my resistance, and minimizes my suffering over things that aren’t in my control.
And it works even when I’m not okay with anything about the situation. It helps for things that are terrible. It helps with things that I would do anything to change.
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Music
Kawai Kitsune by Kevin MacLeod
Link: https://filmmusic.io/song/4990-kawai-kitsune
License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
