We are so focused on how society see us and the standards we have grown up with. "I had to find myself and it is not something that happens over-night, that shit took years, but I love my chocolate ass, my gap, my locs, my voice, and every bit of my Goddess ass. Lizzo couldn’t have said it any better. It took realizing that, “no matter how small or big or how I look, no one’s ever going to be completely happy,” “I think because I believe that I’m beautiful and I found that beauty within myself, it starts to come out,” she said. “Maybe I was always beautiful to people, you know, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But I’m glowing because I had to find that.” --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/erbgoddess/support