Emotional Sobriety: The Next Step in Recovery
Emotional Sobriety: The Next Step in Recovery
Allen Berger & Thom Rutledge
Responsibility “To” Others, Not “For” Them
25 minutes Posted Aug 3, 2026 at 4:46 pm.
Emotional Sobriety: Next Step in Recovery
You Deserve to Matter
The Importance of Reality
Codependents: The Joy of Living
"I Made My Amends To My Mom"
Tom Brady on Responsibility
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Thom’s Nutshell:
Don’t make the mistake of thinking you have no impact in this world of ours. You do.
Whether from a pebble or a giant rock, we’re all leaving ripples in the pond. Allen, Thom, and Patrick discuss the illusion of separateness permeating our human bonds. Emotional sobriety can resolve the crises caused by looking towards other people to validate our existence when we don’t think we matter.
Being responsible to others is accepting responsibility to ourselves. Thom and Allen discuss amends and earning our own respect.
Rest in peace Glen Hansard.
Our music is provided by the great southern artist Jefferson Ross. Learn more about Jefferson at jeffersonross.com
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