In this episode, the tables are turned.  May was the 12 month anniversary for this podcast and I wanted to do something different.  Each week you get to hear me inquiring into others' views, experiences, research and practice and for this one, you get to hear from me. Huge thank you to Mark Gilroy for his help and being our guest host for this anniversary special.  We explore my experiences with the podcast, what events have formed part of where I am and what I do now, my current areas of interest and research and share some powerful personal accounts.  There is a long old list of references for this one and here they are (I have done my best to put them in chronological order as they appeared in the show): References: Podcast episode 13https://emotionatwork.podbean.com/e/episode-13-a-pause-and-reflection-from-me/ Podcast episode 14https://emotionatwork.podbean.com/e/episode-14-emotion-at-work-in-stories-phil-willcox/ The blog I referred to around 9 minutes inhttps://www.linkedin.com/pulse/hush-race-phil-willcox The Three Good Podcast hosted by Sukh Pabial and with Mark Gilroy (out guest host) talking optimismhttps://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-rsiyg-8c00ff Mark mentioned a quote 'If you don't know how much you need, the default is always more' - Ryan Holiday on the Tim Ferris show podcast at https://tim.blog/2016/08/14/whats-important-to-you/ The Ignite talk that I did at the CIPD L&D Show in 2017https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clId_aHDLyY&list=UUSuNRzWJJ09BaatS3uYoaIw&index=33 The latest version of the MSc that I completed https://www2.mmu.ac.uk/study/postgraduate/course/msc-communication-behaviour-and-credibility-analysis/ The Cooperative Principle - It was Grice, not Leetch, sorryhttps://glossary.sil.org/term/cooperative-principle Face and facework - Erving Goffman - a nice summaryhttp://www.glottopedia.org/index.php/Face_(concept) Good Practice Live podcast that I mentionedhttp://podcast.goodpractice.com/93-live-from-london-what-is-the-state-of-the-nation The Griefcast podcast that Mark mentionedhttps://www.acast.com/griefcast Episode 12 with Dawn Archer - gives more on face and faceworkhttps://emotionatwork.podbean.com/e/episode-12-emotion-at-work-in-impression-management/ TMSDI - where Mark workshttps://www.tmsdi.com/ Mark's bloghttp://www.snap-leadership.com/  Books Pragmatics - George Yulehttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Pragmatics-Oxford-Introduction-Language-Study/dp/0194372073/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1527587411&sr=8-1&keywords=pragmatics+george+yule Everyday Talk - Karen Tracy and Jessica Robleshttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Everyday-Talk-Second-Reflecting-Identities/dp/1462511473/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1527590449&sr=1-3&keywords=everyday+talk Deviate - the Science of seeing differently- Beau Lottohttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Deviate-Science-Differently-Beau-Lotto/dp/1474600336/ref=tmm_hrd_title_0?_encoding=UTF8&&qid=&&sr= Paul Ekmanhttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotions-Revealed-Second-Recognizing-Communication/dp/B00M0DCPS0/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1527590676&sr=1-4&keywords=emotions+revealed Presentation of Self in Everyday Life - Erving Goffmanhttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Presentation-Self-Everyday-Penguin-Psychology/dp/0140135715/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1527590757&sr=1-1&keywords=goffman Interaction Ritual - Erving Goffmanhttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Interaction-Ritual-Face-Face-Behavior/dp/0394706315/ref=sr_1_9?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1527590757&sr=1-9&keywords=goffman Forms of talk - Erving Goffmanhttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Forms-Conduct-Communication-Erving-Goffman/dp/081221112X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1527590857&sr=1-1&keywords=goffman+forms+of+talk Frame Analysis - Erving Goffmanhttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Frame-Analysis-Essay-Organization-Experience/dp/093035091X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1527590901&sr=1-1&keywords=frame+analysis The Strange Order of Things - Antonio Damasiohttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Strange-Order-Things-Antonio-Damasio/dp/0307908755/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1527590920&sr=1-1&keywords=damasio More from Mark: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mgilroy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thatmarkgilroy  Follow us on Instagram for exclusive Podcast updates! https://www.instagram.com/emotionatworkpodcast/  Learn more about Emotion at Work: https://www.emotionatwork.co.uk  Connect with Phil: https://www.linkedin.com/in/phil-willcox-02013425/