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In a society that doesn’t allow boys to cry because it’s viewed as a weakness (or feminine), what are we really teaching our boys? Humans are born with the capacity to feel the full spectrum of emotions, yet men are only allowed to show happiness and anger. In the long run, men are being harmed both physically and mentally by repressing emotions, and are less likely to seek help when needed. Does crying automatically mean there’s a lack of strength or resilience? Or can both coexist without canceling out the other? Find out what the hosts think on this hot topic!What is toxic masculinity? (1:57)Gender Stereotypes (6:14)The Three Tenants (7:17)Can feelings and toughness coexist? (8:05)A good cry needs a good follow up (10:00)Crying helps communicate when we can’t (10:37)Opposite Male Perspectives (12:20)Were you allowed to cry as a kid? (13:58)Men as providers (15:30)One thing doesn’t cancel the other (17:26)What did you see growing up? (20:00)Healthy Masculinity (21:46)Level the Playing Field (23:23)Lady Training (31:30)Adriana’s Thoughts on a Man Crying (33:30)We can’t have it both ways (35:06)Boberias! (36:27)Parents’ Triggers (40:48)Seeking Help (42:13)The Magna Tile Meltdown (47:24)Therapy Resistance (49:41)Cross Cultural Toxicity (54:17)Letting our kids see us cry (56:22)Tug of War with Yourself (58:28)Not wanting to worry others (1:00:12)Yay for Therapy! (1:01:12)Closing Remarks (1:03:47)
