Hey hey! We sat down with the hilarious @pamnotanderson to talk the Amanda Seales brewhaha, the Ellen & Dubya controversy, having the the bare necessities for facilitating a hookup and so much more! Doozy! Give it a listen.   We wanna hear from you. Email us your eff’n up questions, quandaries and stories to [email protected] and we’ll read em’ on the show. If you see people eff’n up in the wild, tag us and we’ll repost it. Rate, review and subscribe to Eff’n up on iTunes and Apple Podcasts. Be sure to check out Pamela’s weekly show @justcomenyc every Tuesday at