How to deal with procrastinating and unambitious partners. We discuss the problem of partners who are not making an attempt to stay in alignment with the goals of a relationship. We also touch on the frustrations felt as a result of advice that is not acted upon especially after affirming that they would comply. Prepare for every task as if you many be doing it alone: Let every person have their choice and keep moving forward; Let them see your success and if that does not motivate them then let them have the fruit of thier own choices. We are no responsible for our partners intellectual successes or failures