In this episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul," relationship coach Lisa Shield discusses the pitfalls of trying to fix or change one's partner in a relationship. She reflects on her own experience with her ex-husband, illustrating how focusing on fixing him detracted from her own self-growth and relationship satisfaction. Lisa explains the concept of codependency and how it manifests in relationships, leading to stagnation and unfulfillment. She emphasizes the importance of self-responsibility and encourages women to evaluate their past relationships to understand their patterns and make healthier choices in the future. Lisa introduces her Emotionally Naked dating program, which focuses on helping individuals prioritize self-improvement and set standards for their partners, aiming for relationships that foster mutual growth and respect. The episode is a call to action for listeners to stop settling and start envisioning and working towards a partnership where both individuals elevate each other.