If I Go Over There, What Do I Say To Start Conversation?

This is our episode 4 where we go over how to approach, open and start conversation with girls.

We cover the 3 general types of openers we were taught when we 1st started: direct, indirect, situational. Plus, we talk about non-verbal openers, and miscellaneous openers.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

• What is the difference between direct, indirect and situational openers/conversation starters.
• Our personal recommendation of which opener taught us the most.
• The drawbacks to using indirect and situation.
• Example of indirect openers we’ve used.
• How to pull off a specific type of indirect openers – the dreaded opinion opener that was made popular by the Neil’s Strauss’ book, The Game.
• Why you need to stop using google to help your ability to open.
• Mixing different openers together to get a better reaction.
• Funny, flirty, dumb, banter openers.
• Better openers for the daytime.
• Openers that work from Simple Pickup.
• How to use compliments as openers.
• How to use forgetting what you were going to say to as an opener.
• Panda’s corny, lame, and cheesy lines for opening.
• How to make girl’s day through opening.
• Good mindsets for going into the approach.
• What our female friends say about us approaching.
• The Elite Daily post article on “Why Women Need to Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls”
• A very, very brief overview of masculine and feminine polarity from the book, “Way of the Superior Man” by David Deida.
• Dumb, funny opener that worked for us.
• How to screen for girls that have your humor.
• The obvious or lazy opener.
• Using role-playing as an opener and using that as a basis for your initial conversation.
• Using our openers as a stepping stone for finding your own humor.
• Approaching tall girls as a short guy.
• Basic structure of conversation to follow, but understand that it’s more of a cycle then a linear timeline.
• Long-distance flirting and high-compliance non -verbal openers.
• Mindsets when walking into a venue.
• How we use dance to have fun at night.
• Using dumb dances like those on hitch to have a good time.
• Having a high-school-musical mentality.
• Our default openers and why you should have one.
• The content of what you say don’t matter so say whatever you want because it’s your sub communication that dictates more than what you actually say.

LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• Neil Strauss’ The Game
• Simple Pickup
• Why Women Need to Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls – Elite Daily Article
• David Deida’s Way of the Superior Man

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