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Dan talks with Chong about past loves, dating in New York, and putting yourself first.
Listen on <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/dan-talks/id1448179543?mt=2" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Apple Podcasts</a> or <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/5ySeJZPw7GgyRt8v7CCA7S" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Spotify.</a>
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I talk with (mostly queer) people about all things life.