We discuss the importance of spending time together and the value of wasting time. We explore the concept of shared experiences and presentness, highlighting the difference between passive consumption and active engagement. The impact of devices on shared experiences is also examined, with a focus on the addictive nature of technology. Our conversation concludes with a call to take an active role in managing device usage and reclaiming meaningful experiences. Spending time together is an important way to build relationships and create meaningful connections.Wasting time can be valuable, especially for creative individuals who need downtime to recharge and find inspiration.Shared experiences require presentness and active engagement, which is often lacking in the age of technology.Taking an active role in managing device usage is crucial for reclaiming meaningful experiences and making the most of our limited time. Chapters