• Examine the WOUND: Do I KNOW the TRUE NATURE of the offense?• Examine my HEART: Am I WILLING and READY to DEAL with the offense? — Matthew — Matthew • Examine my APPROACH: HOW am I MOVING TOWARD my offender?— Luke ** EXTRA RESOURCES **"The Peacemaker" by Ken Sande"How to Stop the Pain" by Dr. James Richards"I Should Forgive, but . . ." by Dr. Chuck Lynch