Closeness
Closeness
Tari Mannello
What happens long-term when you deprive a woman of sex, intimacy and closeness?
1 hour Posted Nov 14, 2024 at 8:37 pm.
Introduction
Disperate sex drives and libidos
Why can't women just initiate themselves?
Female Nature
No man wants a starfish. No woman wants someone who doesn't desire her
The initiation paradox
Words vs Actions
Men find it hard to initiate when
For things to work, women need to offer these secret ingredients
Mens false promises?
This is how it looks when a woman feels undesired
A hug and kiss is not the bare minimum
Damage control due to lack of promises
For men with low sex drives / libidos
If you can't imagine the previous recommendations, ask yourself these hard questions
Is lack of sex a deal breaker for you or your partner?
Understanding mens issue with too much consent
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Show notes
For a sexual woman, or a woman who enjoys regular sex, nothing feels more devastating than being deprived of intimacy, closeness, and the feeling of being desired. In long-term relationships, this scenario is more common than many realize and can lead to her disconnecting, shutting down and even feeling deeply resentmentful. In this episode, we explore what you can do if you've been neglecting your partner ins this department.
The Pain of Feeling Undesired
When a woman feels rejected sexually, it’s not just about the lack of physical intimacy—it’s about the emotional toll it takes on her feeling unwanted. She may begin to question her worth, her attractiveness, and even the relationship itself. A hug and a peck hello won't be enough to salvage it.  Meaningful actions and effort are needed to make her feel truly wanted but more so in the sensual and sexual sense.
The Initiation Paradox
Many men struggle to initiate intimacy, while many women hesitate to take the lead for fear of being judged or feeling rejected themselves. This “initiation paradox” creates a frustrating stalemate that slowly erodes sexual connection. A woman’s sexual expression often mirrors what her partner inspires in her; if she feels ignored or undesired, her sensuality can wither. To move things forward, it’s essential to break this cycle by understanding her emotional needs and taking intentional steps to get that chemistry back.
Questions to Ask Yourself
If intimacy has stalled in your relationship, it’s time for some tough self-reflection. Effort is sometimes too strong of word, but are you putting in the effort or energy to make her feel desired? Are you addressing your own low libido or other barriers to connection? If you’re in a sexless or low-sex relationship, ask yourself whether this is a dealbreaker—or if you’re willing to put in the work to change the dynamic. Recognize that women still crave intimacy and fantasize about passion, even if the spark has dimmed in their own relationship.
This emotionally charged episode goes deep into the challenges of intimacy deprivation and offers actionable advice for reigniting connection and restoring balance.
Ready to Come Closer?
Listen now for insights on how to overcome mismatched libidos, rebuild desire, and create a more fulfilling relationship. Visit Closeness.com for more resources on intimacy and connection. 
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