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Tari Mannello
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Ghosting and Blocking and Curving Oh My!
1 hour 41 minutes Posted Jun 29, 2020 at 5:31 am.
What is ghosting?
Why do people ghost?
When does emotional involvement begin?
Preliminaries and disclaimers
Having to make backup plans
Taking our own insecurities out on others
The most important sentence when it comes to dating
Runaway brides
Understanding the devastating effects of ghosting
Why ghosting makes you someone who can't be trusted
Why you being uncomfortable is not as important as you think
Examples of being uncomfortable
Do you ghost when your finances are involved
More emotional effects of ghosting
Stop pretending you don't want hurt the other person
Curving
Blocking
The one key you need to understand boundaries
Ghosting causes hostility
Fear of Missing Out (FOMO)
Why you NEED to care about what others think about you
One guiding principle
When you do need to set a boundary. Story time
Why you need understanding when someone ghosts
Another story about someone who gave different reasons for breaking it off
The perils of changing your mind
Secrets to being rejected
An exceptional example of asking for understanding
A woman's sensitivity to tone and intensity
More on healthy boundaries
Do the other persons feelings really matter?
Why if your'e involved with someone, it's your obligation to be a custodian of their emotions
Why it's risky to ask for understanding if you are being rejected
We MUST learn how to reject and be rejected responsibly
Tying it all together
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It's one of the most detrimental behavior patterns of our generation. Here's everything you need to know to recognize it, avoid it and if you are afflicted with this disease, how to cure it.
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