What happens when Jesus is not first in your home and how the world fills the gap  15:00, Remembering that God loves my kids more than I do. 19:00, The importance of working on your own heart, "You won't treat your kids any better than you treat yourself" If nothing else, start at 20:00 and listen to the difference between boys and girls; how girls want their parents to delight in them and boys want to know "do I have what it takes?" Here is a link to her books: http://amzn.to/2vMtxpP