In this reflection, Stacy shares her thoughts on navigating the challenging world of parenting teenagers. She introduces her concept 'money in the bank', a strategy she advocates for maintaining healthy relationships, especially with teenagers, and she emphasizes the importance of connection in these relationships even when it becomes challenging when all they want is independence.

The 'money in the bank' concept helps understand and manage emotional responses, building a neutral ground within the relationship. 

Stacey encourages listeners to remain tentative and understanding, all the while learning and growing in their parenting journey.