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Isabelle Roughol
History's super confused ideas about women's sex lives (with Kate Lister)
50 minutes Posted May 9, 2026 at 7:00 am.
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AUDIO 07 Kate Lister
Intro
"Girls will be girls": women as the emotionally unstable, hypersexed gender
Why is women's sexuality so much more policed th an men's?
The medicalisation and pathologizing of sexuality or the Victorian terror of masturbation
The wandering womb
Women as baby-crazed, emotional beings
Are we talking about the menopause too much?
The first woman to describe a female orgasm (she was a medieval nun)
"Sex means putting a penis into something"
Why lesbians have been relatively left alone
The invention of privacy
Victorian middle-class morality and the angel in the house
Empire and the racialisation of female purity
"Go and ask your mother"
Where does a sex historian find sources?
Why researching the history of pleasure matters
The final question
Conclusion
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The ancient Greeks believed a woman's womb wandered through her body and made her ill. Medieval Europeans believed a woman's orgasm was necessary for conception. And the Victorians believed masturbation would drive you to madness. Sex historian Dr. Kate Lister β€” host of Betwixt the Sheets and author of Flick: A History of Sexual Pleasure β€” joins me for a tour through the wildly strange, often infuriating history of women's sexuality. For most of that history, women were believed to be the more sex-crazed gender. What can we say, girls will be girls...
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On this episode:
Isabelle Roughol - Host
Kate Lister - Guest
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00:00) - AUDIO 07 Kate Lister
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01:37) - Intro
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03:06) - "Girls will be girls": women as the emotionally unstable, hypersexed gender
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05:36) - Why is women's sexuality so much more policed th an men's?
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07:40) - The medicalisation and pathologizing of sexuality or the Victorian terror of masturbation
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11:30) - The wandering womb
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13:16) - Women as baby-crazed, emotional beings
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15:20) - Are we talking about the menopause too much?
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16:31) - The first woman to describe a female orgasm (she was a medieval nun)
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21:30) - "Sex means putting a penis into something"
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24:08) - Why lesbians have been relatively left alone
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27:31) - The invention of privacy
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30:02) - Victorian middle-class morality and the angel in the house
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33:42) - Empire and the racialisation of female purity
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36:34) - "Go and ask your mother"
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40:59) - Where does a sex historian find sources?
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42:39) - Why researching the history of pleasure matters
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46:22) - The final question
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49:12) - Conclusion
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