The Open Bedroom Podcast
The Open Bedroom Podcast
The Open Bedroom Podcast
EP#172: What Happens When Men Allow Pleasure
24 minutes Posted Nov 24, 2024 at 12:00 pm.
Intro
Father's Day Story Begins
Exploring New Dynamics
The Role of the "Commander"
Incorporating Sensory Play
Transformative Sensory Experience
Edging and Intense Stimulation
The Best Orgasm of His Life
Guilt and Shared Pleasure
The Importance of Eye Contact
Vulnerability in Intimacy
Advice for Partners
Scheduling Relationship Dynamics
Balancing Spontaneity and Planning
Communication and Trust
Using Storytelling to Communicate
Final Advice for Men
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Show notes
Intro(00:00:00)
Jennifer welcomes Jason and introduces the topic of pleasure in men's sex lives.
Father's Day Story Begins (
00:01:24)
Jason shares his Father's Day experience and the plans made with his wife.
Exploring New Dynamics (
00:02:55)
Jason reflects on the typical sexual routine and the desire to try something different.
The Role of the "Commander" (
00:03:19)
Discussion on Jason's usual dominance in their sexual encounters and his nickname.
Incorporating Sensory Play (
00:05:03)
Jason describes the introduction of sensory play tools in their intimate life.
Transformative Sensory Experience (
00:06:10)
Jason details the sensations he experienced during the sensory play with his wife.
Edging and Intense Stimulation (
00:08:05)
Jason explains the prolonged stimulation and its effect on his experience.
The Best Orgasm of His Life (
00:08:50)
Jason shares the outcome of their session, highlighting its intensity and pleasure.
Guilt and Shared Pleasure (
00:09:10)
Post-experience guilt leads to a conversation about mutual enjoyment in pleasure.
The Importance of Eye Contact (
00:12:03)
Discussion on the significance of being seen and making eye contact during intimacy.
Vulnerability in Intimacy (
00:13:10)
Exploration of vulnerability when allowing a partner to give pleasure.
Advice for Partners (
00:14:16)
Encouragement for women to initiate conversations about pleasure with their partners.
Scheduling Relationship Dynamics (
00:15:45)
Jennifer shares the benefits of scheduling different types of intimate experiences.
Balancing Spontaneity and Planning (
00:17:29)
Discussion on finding a balance between spontaneous and scheduled intimate time.
Communication and Trust (
00:18:58)
Importance of open communication in exploring new dynamics in relationships.
Using Storytelling to Communicate (
00:21:05)
Jason shares how he used storytelling to introduce new ideas to his wife.
Final Advice for Men (
00:22:52)
Encouragement for men to be open to receiving pleasure and not just giving.
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