Worrying about relapse, being let down in the past and making sure we protect ourselves are things we think about often.  In today's episode we talk about how we couldn't and sometimes still can't count on our partners. Elise shares how years of lying and use still bring up feelings of anger. Alex shares about her interesting conversation with Charlie and Liz talks about how Jake being in a halfway house is disruptive to their relationship. Topics also discussed: Treatment Recovery Relapse Antabuse Mental health Relationships Addiction Therapy Self-care Follow us at: Instagram: @boyproblemspod Twitter: @boyprobspodcast Facebook: @boyproblemspod Additional Resources: Co-Dependents Anonymous: coda.org/ Al-Anon: al-anon.org/ Nar-Anon: www.nar-anon.org/ National Helpline: www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline Treatment Locator: findtreatment.samhsa.gov/