Adulting in Action
Adulting in Action
Jada Elam
Ep10: Haterade
13 minutes Posted Aug 6, 2021 at 5:42 pm.
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Once you understand why people hate on you, it’s easier to deal with it because you know it’s mainly a reflection of how they feel about themselves

 

Point 1. Why haters come our way

 

  1. We are living in the success they wish they had and so essentially, the haterade is really jealousy

 

  1. They are comparing themselves to you and they feel inferior… so putting you down makes them feel better

 

Point 2: How to deal with the haterade being thrown your way

  1. Appreciate it because underneath it all, it’s really a compliment. They wouldn’t be hating if they didn’t admire you

 

  1. Block them! You don’t need that energy being put on you and the best way to protect yourself is to remove the people from your life that always has something negative to say

 

  1. Keep your mentality strong by doing activities like journaling and praying

 

  1. Watch out for the friends that act like your friend in your face but are really hating on you behind closed doors… if these people are in your life, you may not detect them, so pray and ask God to remove any fake friends from your life

The Goalfriends Club application:

www.greenlineplanner.com/goalfrineds

 

Music by NYCBangers