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Is Christian dating advice actually making you lonelier?If you have ever felt like the modern dating scene is broken or that you are just "waiting on God" while feeling stuck, you aren't crazy. For many Christian men, trying to find a spouse feels like walking through a minefield of high expectations, confusing rules, and spiritual guilt. You want to honor God, but you also just want a connection that feels real.In this video, we strip away the churchy clichés to get to the raw truth about romance, loneliness, and what the Bible actually says (and doesn't say) about dating. We are going beyond the standard "don't have sex" talks to answer the real question keeping you up at night: Is there a way to pursue love without losing your soul or your sanity?We will explore six non-negotiables that offer freedom rather than just more rules. Whether you are single, dating, or recovering from a breakup, this is the practical wisdom you need to navigate relationships with clarity and confidence.SUBSCRIBE to our channel / @binmin_org JOIN the NEWSLETTER at https://binmin.org/newsletter/SUPPORT Binmin with a tax-deductible gift HERE - https://binmin.org/donate0:00 - THE SCARY TRUTH ABOUT CHRISTIAN DATING EXPECTATIONS0:26 - THE HIDDEN SPIRITUAL THREAT BEHIND MODERN DATING0:56 - WHY “YOU’RE NOBODY TILL SOMEBODY LOVES YOU” IS A LIE1:28 - CAN YOU FOLLOW JESUS AND STILL DATE? (YES, BUT...)1:35 - WHY THE BIBLE NEVER TALKS ABOUT “DATING”1:51 - HOW RELATIONSHIPS WORKED IN THE BIBLE’S WORLD3:10 - SO WHAT ARE WE SUPPOSED TO DO TODAY?3:15 - THE BIBLE’S “YES”: PRINCIPLES FOR DATING WITH WISDOM3:55 - 6 NON-NEGOTIABLES FOR DATING WITH PURPOSE4:16 - NON-NEGOTIABLE #1: DATE WITH MARRIAGE IN MIND4:29 - NON-NEGOTIABLE #2: DON’T BE UNEQUALLY YOKED4:39 - NON-NEGOTIABLE #3: DON’T AWAKEN DESIRE TOO EARLY4:52 - NON-NEGOTIABLE #4: INVITE COMMUNITY IN5:04 - NON-NEGOTIABLE #5: LOOK FOR FRUIT, NOT JUST CHEMISTRY5:13 - NON-NEGOTIABLE #6: SEEK GOD FIRST, NOT A RELATIONSHIP5:45 - YOUR NEXT STEP: LET GOD SPEAK INTO YOUR DATING LIFEJOIN the NEWSLETTER. SUPPORT Binmin with a tax-deductible gift HERECONNECT WITH BINMIN: TikTok Instagram Facebook Linkedin Binmin.orgQuestions?: [email protected] RESOURCES: More from Binmin: Binmin.org Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Follow on Spotify Subscribe on YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW on Apple podcasts