BigDeal
BigDeal
Codie Sanchez
Sales Expert: 3 Ways To Get A YES Every Time | Ryan Serhant
58 minutes Posted Dec 10, 2025 at 9:30 am.
Introduction
The Fake Rolex That Changed Everything
From Soap Opera Star to Real Estate Mogul
Speed Bumps vs Brick Walls: Handling Setbacks
Building in Public: The Netflix Experiment
Gray Hair Don't Care: Dealing with Haters
The Orchid Trick: Turning Rejection into Power
Selling to Billionaires: The Two C's and the Pull Strategy
Confidence is Currency: What Rich People Really Pay For
The Thousand Minute Rule: Time as Money
Hiring A-Players: Intelligence Over Experience
Leader vs Manager: Standing at the Front Lines
Building Identity and Future Memoir Exercise
The Four Business Flywheel Strategy
Negotiation Mastery: Translate Don't Talk
Owning Manhattan Season 2 and the Evolution of Reality TV
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Most people think sales is about talking. Ryan Serhant knows better β€” it's about translating. After closing over $20 billion in real estate deals and building one of the fastest-growing brokerages in America, the star of Netflix's Owning Manhattan has cracked the code on how to get anyone to say yes. From selling homes to billionaires to building a media empire on the back of reality TV, Ryan reveals the brutal truth about what it actually takes to win at the highest level.
In this raw conversation, Ryan breaks down the orchid trick (he's sent 2,000 of them), why silence is violence in negotiations, and how a fake Rolex changed his entire life. We dive into why wealthy people don't pay for information or access, but instead pay for confidence; how to get a stranger to trust you with real money; and why the best negotiators throw the first punch. But this isn't just about closing deals β€” it's about building an empire. Ryan reveals how he's stacking businesses under one holding company (brokerage, media, education, and AI), why his LTV to CAC ratio is 6x while the industry averages 1x, and how he's building real estate brokerage 3.0 with no physical offices.
If you've ever wondered how to sell to the ultra-wealthy without sucking up, how to build unshakeable confidence when you're broke, or why setbacks are just speed bumps and not brick walls, this episode will change how you think about sales, negotiation, and what it takes to become the best in the world at what you do.
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