1.Take control of what you can control dont struggle to control what you can't. 2.love is not for everyone stop forcing it. 3.Family is family. 4.Schooling is for education not employment stop struggling.5. Character and behaviour is street smart.6.First people to ruin your mental health is your friends.7.Decision making is a process.8. Financial literacy.9. Success is for everyone it about time.10. Plan for what to can achieve.......... My national ID experience has been a mess of its won.