There is only one way there is only one life, its to lay down your own life and pick up the life of Jesus. Love is not found in things that have a dead end, it cant identify you because your identity is found in the one that created you, who is Love Himself. The fight is not with the devil its not with people, its believing in who Jesus says He is and why His life is in us. Thats the only fight ur supposed to fight, the good fight of Faith. But its called the good fight because its finished, Jesus is the finisher of our Faith. As a believer you need to put the Faith in the Truth to believe that in your heart, and as your heart is fastened with the Truth and knowing The Father intimately starting from the secret place, exercising your Faith, then He will manifest into your life Word manifested in the flesh as He is so are we in this world right now walking in His reality of the heavenly realm.