Its the encounter that brings change.The will of The Father is for you to deny yourself and live a surrendered live for Him to take over and start doing your life for you better than you can so He can reach the lost broken hurting and dying. In our encounters with people its the Lord in us that knows His children and can speak to those lost hurting children because He knows them and Hes close to the brokenhearted. This is all about yet not one shall perish. A born again believer filled with the Holy Spirit has Christ in them and therefore can not lack anything unless they believe so. Jesus is the prize. When you know Him youre able to reveal Him to glorify Him which is what its all about. Jesus only did what the Father said and only said what The Father said. Surrender.