in this special episode, we are joined by Paul and Phil.we set the world to rights on a lot of things. shadow banning, the gay scene in Northern Ireland and legalisation of Gay Marriage in Northern Ireland. We chat about the contentious topic of thirst traps, all the while Paul is feeding Stephen jäger. Phil gives us a little insight into the drag scene in Belfast, and his thoughts on Blu Hydrangea. we have a very interesting chat about relationships, and the challenges of a modern relationship and how people feel the need to label them. Phil, Mark and Stephen also give Paul a challenge. its a long one, guys, but it is full of fun and shade, and some unexpectedly serious chat.you can follow our guests on instagram Paul is at www.instagram.com/husky_alex_Phil is at www.instagram.com/im_phill_stewartyou can flowing the podcast at www.instagram.com/podcastbearwithme and www.facebook.com/podcastbearwithmeand you can contact us at [email protected]You can follow Mark at www.instagram.com/sparkicubYou can follow Stephen at www.instagram.com/justahometownboyWe want to say a massive thank you to Jonas for providing us with the intro music. you are an awesome man with a huge talent. follow Jonas at www.instagram.com/jonasgladnikoffThank you for listeningMark and Stephen