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Franklin Swann NotesEpisode Summary: The Power of Fatherhood and VulnerabilityIn this heartfelt episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads," we had the pleasure of speaking with Franklin, a dedicated father and business owner from Tyler, Texas. Franklin shared his fatherhood journey, the challenges, and triumphs of running a family business, and the importance of being present and intentional as a dad.Key Takeaways:· Family Business Legacy: Franklin discussed his 128-year-old family business in furniture and interior design, highlighting the inherent pressures and his desire to contribute meaningfully rather than just taking over.· Fatherhood Insights: We delved into Franklin's experiences as a father, his relationship with his dad, and the lessons he's learned along the way. He emphasized the value of patience, presence, and the power of apologizing to your children.· Intentional Parenting: Franklin shared his daily practice of writing love notes to his wife and children, a simple yet profound act that strengthens his family bonds and ensures his loved ones know how much they are cherished.· Vulnerability Among Men: Franklin opened up about his podcast, "The World Needs Men," which aims to provide a space for men to share their struggles and support each other in their roles as fathers and husbands.· The Importance of Community: The episode highlighted the significance of men having a community where they can be vulnerable and honest about their challenges without fear of judgment.· Reflections:This episode was a powerful reminder of fathers' impact on their families and the importance of vulnerability and intentionality in parenting. Franklin's story and commitment to being the best dad he can be were genuinely inspiring. Creating a supportive community for fathers is beneficial and necessary for the well-being of families everywhere.Remember, there is always time to reconnect with your children or your father. As we continue our journey to be better dads, let's take a page from Franklin's book and lead with humility, gratitude, and love. 00:00:03 - Introduction to the Podcast 00:00:14 - Welcoming Listeners to "Bear Crawl with Dads" 00:00:24 - Discussing the Spectrum of Fatherhood 00:00:34 - Introducing Guest Franklin from Texas 00:01:20 - Franklin's Background and Family Business 00:02:07 - Franklin's Age and Schooling 00:02:24 - Visiting All Saints School for Innovative Education 00:02:47 - Franklin's Experience with Texas Football 00:03:36 - The Legacy of Franklin's Family Business 00:03:57 - Expectations and Pressures in a Family Business 00:04:09 - Franklin's Decision to Join the Family Business 00:04:52 - The Challenges of Running a Family Business 00:05:56 - The Pressure of Continuing a Family Legacy 00:06:07 - Franklin's Faith and Personal Growth 00:06:45 - Franklin's Relationship with His Brother 00:07:04 - Franklin Reflects on His Father's Influence 00:08:01 - Franklin's Father's Intentional Parenting 00:09:33 - Franklin's Father as a Grandfather 00:10:08 - The Importance of Quality Time and Presence 00:10:50 - Franklin's Take on His Father's Parenting Style 00:11:29 - Franklin's Brother's Relationship with Their Father 00:12:12 - Franklin's Gratitude Towards His Father 00:13:01 - The Impact of Fathers and the Importance of Gratitude 00:13:54 - Franklin's Advice to Fathers and Sons 00:14:20 - Franklin Shares a Personal Story About His Father 00:15:36 - The Significance of Fathers Being Present 00:16:08 - Franklin's Challenges as a Father 00:16:59 - Franklin's Son Calls Him Out 00:17:10 - Learning from Parenting Mistakes 00:18:01 - The Power of Apologizing to Your Children 00:19:16 - The Legacy of Fathers and Sons 00:19:51 - The Importance of Intentionality in Fatherhood 00:20:47 - Franklin's Morning Routine for Family Connection 00:21:31 - The Impact of Writing Love Notes to Family 00:22:25 - Encouraging Fathers to Reconnect with Their Children 00:22:47 - Franklin's Passion for Helping Fathers 00:23:01 - The Launch of Franklin's Podcast for Men 00:24:18 - Franklin's Journey from a Dark Place to Helping Others 00:25:33 - The Importance of Men Sharing Their Struggles 00:26:27 - The Power of Vulnerability Among Fathers 00:27:22 - Franklin's Experience with Men Opening Up 00:28:02 - The Comfort of Knowing Other Fathers Share Similar Struggles 00:29:12 - Franklin's Greatest Challenge as a Father 00:29:56 - Franklin's Strategies for Staying Centered and Present 00:30:33 - The Impact of Franklin's Morning Routine 00:31:29 - Franklin's Daily Love Notes to His Family 00:32:46 - The Significance of Franklin's Love Notes Tradition 00:33:27 - The Power of Intentionality in Franklin's Life 00:34:01 - Franklin's Mission to Support Fathers Through His Podcast 00:35:20 - The Importance of Men's Vulnerability and Support 00:36:07 - Franklin's Podcast as a Platform for Men's Stories 00:37:15 - The Healing Power of Men Sharing Their Pain 00:38:10 - The Loneliness Men Face and the Need for Connection 00:39:35 - The Importance of Real Conversations Among Men 00:40:31 - The Impact of Vulnerability and Honesty in Male Friendships 00:41:33 - Franklin's Personal Experience with Men's Vulnerability 00:42:35 - The Need for Authenticity and Support in Fatherhood 00:43:27 - Franklin's Personal Transformation and Desire to Help Others 00:44:23 - The Launch of Franklin's Podcast and Its Reception 00:45:33 - The Power of Shared Struggles and Vulnerability Among Men 00:46:39 - Franklin's Experience with Men Opening Up on a Fishing Trip 00:47:49 - The Isolation of Men and the Importance of Sharing Burdens 00:48:42 - Franklin's Journey to Helping Men Through His Podcast 00:49:35 - The Importance of Men's Groups and Honest Conversations RESOURCES MENTIONED:Franklin Swann’s Podcast, “The World Needs Men”Follow Franklin Swann on “The World Needs Men” on InstagramFollow Franklin Swann on FacebookSwann Furniture and Design, Tyler, TX WHERE WE CAN CONNECT: Follow Bear Crawl with Dads on InstagramFollow Bear Crawl with Dads on TwitterConnect with Bear Crawl with Dads on FacebookFollow Ross Purdy on LinkedInBear Crawl with Dad’s website FOLLOW & REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS Are you following the podcast? 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