Bare Marriage
Bare Marriage
Sheila Gregoire
Episode 336: The Problems with The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle
1 hour 51 minutes Posted Aug 20, 2026 at 11:00 am.
Intro: Why We’re Talking About The Empowered Wife
The “Six-Step Formula” for a Perfect Marriage
Marriage Counselors vs. “Lived Experience”
Is the Wife Responsible for Changing the Marriage? Can One Person Really Fix a Marriage?
When “Positive Thinking” & Denial Meets Addiction & Abuse
Introducing the Intimacy Skills - Skill #1: Self-Care & Finding Your Voice
Is This Intimacy—or Manipulation?
Skill #2: “Restore Respect” & the Myth of the “Good Guy”
Your Husband Doesn’t Want Your Opinion: The Harm of Self-Silencing
The Mike & Matthew Story: Life Lesson or Abuse?
Conflict, Honesty, Trusting Your Self-Preception, & Teaching Kids to Speak Truth
Why Healthy Expectations Aren’t “Control”
Skill #5: Revealing Your Heart With Vulnerability & “Ouch”
The “Myth” of Verbal Abuse & When “Peace” Actually Means Shrinking Yourself
Laura’s Destructive Marriage Advice: Stay Even if it Isn’t Safe
Seducing Your Cheating Husband, Sex & the Pressure to Keep Him
Gratitude, the “Spouse-Fulfilling Prophecy”, & Contempt
Is Staying Married the Highest Goal? Why Do So Many Women Say This Book “Saved” Their Marriage?
Conclusion: Is Marriage About Surviving or Flourishing? The Final Call for Discernment
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Send us Fan Mail Bethany Jantzi and Dr. Merry Lin join us in taking a very close—and occasionally incredulous—look at Laura Doyle’s The Empowered Wife, unpacking its promises, “six intimacy skills,” and insistence that women can transform their marriages by changing themselves. They explore where self-care, respect, vulnerability, and intimacy can sound appealing while still becoming dangerous when they encourage women to self-silence, ignore serious problems, or take responsibility for a hus...