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Badass Softie
Dr. J.J. Peterson
What Happens When Everything Becomes Practical
30 minutes Posted Jun 22, 2026 at 8:00 am.
The Book That Changed J.J.’s Life
Why People Need to Feel Seen
Every Business Is in the Hospitality Business
Creating More Magic in the World
Why Some Things Matter More Than Money
Joy Shouldn’t Be Reserved for Special Occasions
Never Let a Gracious Impulse Pass
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What if the moments that change someone's day are the ones we almost talk ourselves out of?
The compliment we never give.
The thank you we never send.
The invitation we never make.
The extra effort we decide isn't necessary.
In this conversation, Dr. J.J. Peterson sits down with bestselling author and hospitality expert Will Guidara, author of Unreasonable Hospitality, to explore a simple idea that has the power to change how we lead, work, and live:
Never let a gracious impulse pass.
From a brief conversation with a catering team that still talks about the experience years later to creating moments of surprise and wonder that people never forget, Will shares why hospitality has very little to do with restaurants and everything to do with making people feel seen.
Along the way, they discuss why affirmation matters more than we realize, why some of the most meaningful things we do will never show up on a spreadsheet, and why creating a little more magic in the world might be one of the most important responsibilities we have as leaders.
What This Episode Explores
Why people never outgrow the need to feel seen
What hospitality really means beyond customer service
The competitive advantage of caring
Why some ideas are worth more than their immediate return
How to create moments people remember
Why joy shouldn't be reserved for special occasions
What happens when we stop letting gracious impulses pass
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Mentioned in This Episode
Unreasonable Hospitality: https://www.unreasonablehospitality.com/products/unreasonable-hospitality-the-remarkable-power-of-giving-people-more-than-they-expect 
The Unreasonable Hospitality Field Guide: https://www.unreasonablehospitality.com/products/unreasonable-hospitality-the-field-guide 
Website: https://www.unreasonablehospitality.com 
Milk Bar: https://milkbarstore.com 
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