Send us Fan Mail Jeff Schaefer and I dig into how a five-year big leaguer turns failure into fuel, why short memory beats loud emotions, and how role clarity plus relentless preparation create staying power. Youth sports culture, parenting, specialization, and social media all come under the microscope with practical fixes. • short memory as the real measure of competitiveness • failure-heavy nature of baseball and mental reset skills • role clarity, strengths, and utility player preparation...