When is the right time and what message does that send?    That depends...    Do you want to have a relationship or are you just looking for a sexual partner? After you have sex, your relationship changes.    Do you have any rules in place -13 dates, 90 days? Do you hold to them?   Claudia and James are in rare form today.    Sit back and enjoy this episode.   If you have a question that you would like to ask James, you can either:   Ask a question at .   E-mail it to .     Or, text James at 203-512-2161.