An Evolving Man Podcast
An Evolving Man Podcast
Piers Cross
The First Night: Boarding School Separation and the Psychology of Attachment
13 minutes Posted Feb 25, 2026 at 12:00 pm.
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In this episode, Piers Cross explores the psychological impact of a child’s first night at boarding school and why it often becomes a lifelong emotional imprint. Drawing on accounts from Richard Branson, Sebastian Faulks, and Peter Sykes, we examine what happens when children are separated from their families at a young age. Many remember intense fear, others remember nothing at all — a sign of dissociation. Psychotherapist Joy Schaverien describes this moment as a “threshold experience.” It ...