Shelby and Erica discuss where to meet someone new and how to know if you should continue dating them after a few dates, how to create your own lane, and questions to ask to see if you’re violating the girl code. Words of wisdom from Matthew .Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and join our IG community at https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/.Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at www.shelbybrenna.com.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shelby--erica/message