Tip #1 - Conduct a Consultation - For some reason, I have observed over my
career - going back to 1991...most real estate agents have alwaysapproached working with buyers differently than with a seller. With a seller, we make an appointment, go out to meet theseller at their home and have a meeting - or - we refer to this asa listing presentation. However, (and I say for whateverreason) our industry as a whole doesn’t approach the buyer lead thesame way. Why is that? Is it just a matter of watching whatothers have done and doing the same as what everyone else has seenpeople do? It reminds me of the story…A young girl was watching her mother bake a ham for a family
gathering and noticed her mom cutting off the ends before placingit in the oven.“Mom, why do you cut the ends
off before baking the ham?” she asked. “Hmmm…I think it helps soakup the juices while it’s baking. I’m actually not sure,though. That’s just the way your grandma always did it, so I’vejust always cut them off. Why don’t you call grandma and askher?”So, the little girl phoned her
grandma and asked “Grandma, mom is making a ham and cut off theends before placing it in the oven. She said that it’s probably tohelp soak up the juices but wasn’t sure. She said you’d knowbecause she learned how to cook from you.”“That’s true. I do cut off the
ends of the ham before baking. But I’m actually not sure whyeither. I learned how to cook from my mom. You should askher.”So, the inquisitive little girl
called her great-grandmother and asked “Great grandma, mom, andgrandma said they learned how to cook a ham from watching you. Doyou cut off the ends of the ham to help it soak up thejuices?”The great grandmother chuckled.
“Oh, no sweetie. I just never had a pan big enough tohold a whole ham, so I always had to cut off the ends to make itfit.”The story of the ham is not new,
and has been told numerous different ways, but it is a greatexample of the“No problem can be solved from
the same level of consciousness that created it.” - AlbertEinsteinAll that to say, just because
that is what may be “common” is it the most effective? Iunderstood and did this myself in the earlier days of my career. Since then, I have learned that (for me and I found to helpme be successful) was to treat the first step with the buyer, nodifferent from the seller. Have a consultation, get face toface and see what’s really going on. When you do this, itsets up the rest of the process to go forward with fewer issues anda more fluid manner.At the consultation be sure to do the
following:- Present you plan ofaction - (POA) forthe buyer. This is the equivalent of a listing presentationfor the seller. What are the steps you will take as yourepresent the buyer? This builds value and emphasizes yourprofessionalism.
- Use a questionnaireHave a well thought out“questionnaire” that you can use to perform an in-depth needsanalysis. When you “wing it” you risk missing important detailsthat can come back to haunt you later.
- Get commitment- Are you willing to work for free? I don’t think that is your plan, and yet it happens all thetime. People go forward working with a buyer and everyone“feels” good about everything….until...they find a home andopportunity they can’t pass up with another agent. - It’s anextreme example and yet effective. Would you get married tosomeone who says “ok you can marry me, however, I don’t have to bemarried to you”? Of course not! My experience and suggestionhere is it’s just fair - it’s an exchange of commitments - yourtime and expertise to the buyer - and your buyer showing loyalty toyou for your time and expertise. It’s call fair andreasonable! When you demonstrate value, show the benefits thebuyer receives, they will sign a buyer rep agreement with you justas a seller that sees the same value and signs your listingagreement.
- Establish time lines and setexpectations - The bigtakeaway from this step is to be EXPLICITLY clear on when the buyerwill be ready to get the keys to their new home? It’s notenough to have an “idea”. We have to know for sure. Also,know WHY this is important to the buyer? What happens if thatdate is missed? Exhaustively find out what the motivation is.Once you find out the timelines, you can then determine if you moveforward, slow down or wait till a later date. Next, you can use the“formula” to determine what to do next, and this allows the buyerto clearly understand what has to happen to meet their goals.
Tip #2 - Use The Formula - This is something I came up with awhile back.
It’s something I figured out as a result of being in that difficultand very precarious situation when you have a buyer that wants tobuy a home, it’s just not for say several months down the road. You don’t want to lose the lead, and you also don’t want towaste time showing homes and know the buyer isn’t in a position toperform. What do you do? I can tell you what most agents aredoing, they getting caught in this trap of showing homesreluctantly and against your better judgment. This is alwaysfrustrating! I was in this situation so much I finally cameup with the “formula” here is how it works. By the way, it won’twork 100% of the time; nothing works 100% of the time, however,done consistently; it will work in your favor over time.- Establish a timeline- How many days there are fromtoday, until they are ready to move in. Let’s say for this exampleit’s 75 days or 10 weeks. Sounds like a lot of time right?
- Askthe buyer “are you aware of how many days on average it takes toclose a sale once you find your home of choice?” (Doesn’t matterwhat they say) Typically, you will hear 30 or 45 days.
- Regardless, we confirm or agree and use 45 daysas an example. Take (in this case) 75 days and subtract 45 days forthe closing period. This leaves us 30 days to identify andget a contract on a home. All of a sudden, the buyer’s mindsetchanges as they don’t have 75 days anymore, they have 30. This brings some perspective and creates urgency.
- Next,we explain “ok, so we have 30 days to find your new home and get asuccessful contract in place” Unless you let me knowotherwise, that is the timeline I am working towards to make happenfor you. A CLEARLY DEFINED OBJECTIVE! How many buyers wouldyou like to have ready to buy a home in 30 days? Same example- in this case, buyer ready to move in 60 days...less 45 to close,all of a sudden we have two weeks!
- Ifyour buyer begins to lose focus or enthusiasm, you can remind them(tactfully) about the time frames to help keep things ontrack.
Let’s look at the opposite scenario, the buyer says they
want to look at homes and aren’t able to buy for five months. Whatdo you do then?- Establish how many days there are from today,until they are ready to move in. Let’s say for this example it’s150 days or 5 months.
- Askthe buyer “are you aware of how many days on average it takes toclose on a sale once you find your home of choice?” (Doesn’t matterwhat they say) Typically, you will hear 30 or 45 days.
- Regardless, we confirm or agree and use 45 daysas an example. Take (in this case) 150 days and subtract 45 daysfor the closing period. This leaves us 105 days to identifyand get a contract on a home.
- Wecan have the following conversation with the buyer.
- “Iwant to help you...you have a few options...if we find your“perfect” home, we’d have to find a seller willing to wait 100 daysto close, and 60 days is considered to be a longer than the typicaltime frame. Also, you will usually not be able to negotiatefavorable terms since the offer isn’t as attractive to the seller.It also can bring up some challenges for your financing, locking inand fluctuation in rates. (seller market - will be looked over inmultiple offers) So, you have a few choices…
- Youcan wait until you get a bit closer to your timeframe and start thebuying process then. OR
- Ifyou can, move up the date to close the gap and be within thetypical closing time period.
It’s up to you...what would you
prefer? (either way, it works to your favor)With some practice, you can
learn how to deliver this in a sincere manner. It is what itis - having a conversation like this has helped me numerous timeswork through these two situations that are bound to come up oftenwhen working with buyers. The key is really making it about themand showing your support for their circumstances, not that youaren’t interested in showing them homes.
Tip #3 - Showing Property Best
PracticesShow them how the food is cooked in the
kitchen:- Pullall properties that match your buyer’s criteria.
- Tellthem how many you found.
- Explain to them how many you ruled out due tolocation (train track, traffic street, etc.) or didn’t meetcondition expectations, significantly overpriced, etc.
- Thisleaves the net total of possible matches.
- Remove doubt - Doing this helps the buyerrealize that what you’ve presented is the entire market availableto them at this moment, based on their criteria. Also, this removesthat “what if there is something we haven’t seen yet” thoughtprocess. We have to let our buyer into the research process andallow them to be a part of what you have done to prepare for them. Usually, we just present them homes - it’s like putting aplate in front of someone and saying “eat” and not asking if theyare even hungry.
Get your buyer used to hearing “would you like to make
an offer on this home” -The idea here is that we don’t want this to sound foreign to thebuyers we work with. We also don’t want to come acrossobnoxious; there is a balance here. When you ask thisquestion, you get to learn what is going on in your client’s mind. Open dialogue allows you to be on the same page and encouragethe process forward based on that feedback. When we don’ttalk, we don’t know what is taking place and end up dragging outthe process.Play the Beat It game with your buyers -
This is a fun way tohelp you and your buyer rule in or out homes and keep focused. Here’s how it works. You show a home, on your way outthe door, ask them to rate the home on a 1-10 scale, 10 thehighest. Let’s say they rate it a 6. (as a side note, twogreat follow up questions are 1. Ask them “what was it about thehome that makes it a 6 in your mind? 2nd - What would have tohappen to make it a 10? This tells you how they are evaluatingtheir decision-making process.) You go to the next home onyour route and again, on the way out the door, ask how does thisone rate on a 1-10 scale? They say an 8, then this means thisone “beat” the last one. This home is in 1st place, forgetabout that last home, let’s see if we can “beat it”. You go on tohouse #3, ask the same question … they rate it a 7...so yousay...that means house #2 is still the one to beat, let’s forgetthis one and so on. As an example, if you were to show 5 or 6 homesthat day, you all know which one is the home in 1st place. This sets up a simple way to ask at the end of the tour thefollowing “well, of the six homes we saw today, home #2 was yourfavorite home...would you like to make an offer and see what we cando on that one?” My experience is agents just show and showand show some more homes and never make an attempt to get the buyerto make a buying decision. Lastly, if we don’t do this then all thehomes begin to blur together, and the buyers can easily getoverwhelmed and shut down.


