Our view of the world was shaped by the pain and joys we have experienced. This is why we must be attentive to the lens we use to navigate it. Being able to recognize which lens we are using is integral to our survival. Each decision we make is connected to the views of someone who's entered our lives. Dr. Daniels discusses how you can remain in control of your destiny while remaining aware of your glasses prescription. In his words, others' views of you, especially those you really care about, naturally will become your prescription until you decide that you are not going to allow the negative aspects of their views to destroy you.