ADHD Chatter
ADHD Chatter
Alex Partridge
No. 1 Autism Professor: How To Spot Autism In High-Masking Adults!
1 hour 4 minutes Posted Aug 10, 2026 at 11:00 pm.
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Why Luke dedicated his life to understanding autism
How can someone be autistic for decades without knowing?
What high-masking autism actually looks like
How early does autistic masking begin?
The biggest misconception about autism in adults
The biggest signs you’re masking autism
Why autistic people rehearse conversations
Why small talk can be so exhausting
What sensory overwhelm actually feels like
Why autistic people stim
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The autistic behaviours people are made to feel ashamed of
The hidden cost of masking autism
What autistic burnout actually feels like
Can you mask for so long that you lose yourself?
When the mask becomes your personality
Are you really an introvert, or could you be autistic?
The Washing Machine of Woes
A Letter to My Younger Self
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Show notes
Dr. Luke Beardon is a leading autism researcher, author and senior lecturer at Sheffield Hallam University who has spent more than 30 years working alongside autistic people and their families.
In this episode, Luke reveals what autism can actually feel like from the inside, from masking and rehearsing conversations to sensory overwhelm, burnout and the exhaustion of constantly trying to fit in.
He explores why so many people go decades without realising they’re autistic, what happens when you mask for so long that you lose sight of who you really are, and why the parts of yourself you spent a lifetime hiding may never have needed fixing in the first place.
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Producer: Timon Woodward 
Recorded by: Hamlin Studios
Trailer editor: Ryan Faber
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