ADHD Chatter
ADHD Chatter
Alex Partridge
The 4 Types Of Autistic Masking (97% of People Only Know The 1st Type)
1 hour 20 minutes Posted Jul 27, 2026 at 11:00 pm.
Trailer
The Mask You Didn't Know You Were Wearing
Is Your Brain Protecting You Without You Knowing?
The Childhood Moment You Learn It's Safer Not To Be Yourself
What Rejection Does To The Autistic Brain
Mask #1
The Day You Stopped Showing What You Loved
Mask #2
When People Pleasing Stops Being Kindness And Becomes Survival
The Moment You Start Abandoning Yourself
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Mask #3
What If You're So Good At Reading People... You Forget Who You Are?43:34 Mask #4
How People Can Think You're Fine While You're Falling Apart
The Loneliness Nobody Talks About In Autism
The Warning Signs Your Mask Is About To Break
How To Start Taking The Mask Off (Without Losing Yourself)
Why Letting Go Of The Mask Feels So Terrifying
How To Know What's Really You... And What's Just Survival
The Lie Neurodivergent People Blame Themselves For
"I Don't Know Who I Am Anymore."
A Letter To My Younger Self
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Show notes
Do you want to know what autistic masking actually feels like from the inside?
Dr Carly Jones MBE is one of the worldโ€™s leading autistic advocates. Diagnosed as autistic in adulthood after both of her daughters were diagnosed, she has spent nearly two decades improving the lives of autistic people through policy, education and lived experience.
In this episode, Carly explains what masking actually feels like from the inside, why so many autistic people learn to hide who they are from childhood, and the emotional cost of spending years pretending to be someone else.
Together, we explore people pleasing, self-abandonment, loneliness, burnout, and the difficult journey of discovering who you really are after decades of masking.
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Producer: Timon Woodward 
Recorded by: Hamlin Studios
Trailer editor: Ryan Faber
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