Ever been stuck in a band where tempos feel unpredictable…there’s no count-off… no click allowed… and the tension is rising?This week’s question comes from a drummer caught in exactly that situation — dealing with a stressed band leader, shifting tempos, and the pressure of holding it all together.In this episode, I unpack what’s really going on in tempo wars — and how to deal with them without losing your confidence or your cool.We cover:• Why tempo issues are rarely just about time• How to build trust in your internal clock (with or without clicks)• When adapting helps — and when it quietly hurts you• How to raise difficult topics without making things worse• Collaborative compromises that actually work on gigs• Protecting your confidence when frustration is in the roomIf you’ve ever walked off a rehearsal or gig feeling rattled, blamed, or second-guessing yourself — this one’s for you.🎧 Listen now — Episode 212 is live.And if you want support navigating tricky band dynamics, you can book a FREE 30-minute Coaching Taster Session via https://www.emilydrums.com or the link in my bio.