Episode Overview:
In this episode, I sit down with long-time friend and legal expert Richard Sperling, a seasoned family law attorney whose practice focuses on collaborative divorce mediation, premarital and postmarital agreements, and Marvin/palimony claims. With decades of experience in real estate law, business law, and mediation, Richard brings a unique, peace-focused perspective to complex family dynamics.
We take a fun, and deep dive into the intersection of real estate and family law, exploring:
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How real estate gets handled in divorces
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Why putting things in writing is always a good idea
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Common misunderstandings about ownership, equity, and verbal promises
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The value of premarital agreements and postmarital agreemens
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And why peacemaking might be the most underrated skill in law (and real estate!)
Whether you're a real estate agent, attorney, or someone navigating relationship transitions—this episode is packed with practical insight.
What You'll Learn:
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How Richard transitioned from real estate law into family law and mediation
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The emotional intelligence involved in real estate and divorce negotiations
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When (and why) premarital agreements are enforceable—and what makes them invalid
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What happens when a spouse stays in the home post-divorce and how taxes are impacted
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The truth about common law marriage in California
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How gifts from parents during marriage are treated in divorce settlements
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Why cohabitation agreements are critical for unmarried couples buying property
Key Quote:
"A verbal promise in a marriage isn't binding. But if you're not married, a verbal promise might be."



