Afropolitan
Afropolitan
Afropolitan
The Power of Porn: Why Men Can’t Stop Going Back
1 hour 22 minutes Posted Jun 25, 2025 at 4:05 pm.
Redefining Sex Beyond Intercourse
Why Ola Became a Sex Therapist
The Link Between Shame, Pleasure & Pain
When to Start Teaching Children About Sex
The Problem with Porn Education
Faith, Masturbation & Porn: Complex Conversations
Sexual History, Marriage & Performance Anxiety
Not All Men Cheat: Reframing Intimacy Norms
Lagos and the Epidemic of Desire Discrepancy
Olawunmi’s Personal Story of Rape & Healing
How Parents Can Create Safe Spaces for Kids
Reclaiming Your Body After Sexual Trauma
Advice for Partners of Trauma Survivors
Sexual Discipline & the Diddy Allegory
Why Erectile Issues Are Often About Anxiety
Men, Intimacy & Emotional Healing
Rapid Fire: What Men Should Stop Doing in Bed
Why Planned Sex Isn’t Boring
The True Definition of Sex
Final Question: Who Should Sit in This Seat Next?
Breaking Hypersexual Habits Before Marriage
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What happens when we stop centering shame in conversations about sex?
In this deeply vulnerable and transformational episode, we sit down with Olawunmi Esan—one of Nigeria’s leading certified sex therapists and educators—to unpack the emotional, cultural, and psychological layers of sexuality that society rarely names.
From her personal story of surviving sexual trauma to helping thousands heal their relationship with pleasure, Olawunmi brings science, soul, and softness to the conversation. We discuss porn addiction, performance anxiety in men, desire discrepancies in marriages, and what it truly means to create safety in intimacy—for yourself and with others.
Whether you're single, dating, married, or healing, this episode will shift how you think about sex, connection, and emotional honesty.
🔗 Explore More from Olawunmi Esan:
Sexcapades: Erotic Intimacy Exercises
https://learning.olawunmiesan.com/sexcapades
Book a One-on-One Session with Olawunmi
www.olawunmiesan.com/myservices
Take a Course on Pleasure & Healing
https://learning.olawunmiesan.com/products/
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