&nbsp;In this unfiltered and deeply relatable episode, Crystal and Laura dive headfirst into a viral Am I the Asshole Reddit post that brings up a lot of familiar feelings for millennial moms, especially those in cishet partnerships. <h3>Research &amp; References:</h3><ul><li>Rose Hackman, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/104586/9781250777379" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Emotional Labor </a></li><li>Darby Saxbe, <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38951218/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">USC: Study on cognitive labor and maternal burnout</a></li><li>Study on marital burnout in women post-lockdown (2021)</li><li><a href="https://aibm.org/commentary/why-marriage-is-good-for-men/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Data on marriage as a health “asset” for men</a></li><li>Statistic: <a href="https://www.gottman.com/blog/timing-is-everything-when-it-comes-to-marriage-counseling/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">6+ years of dissatisfaction before couples therapy, on average</a></li></ul> This show exists thanks to our amazing community. Subscribing to our <a href="timetoleanpod.substack.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Time to Lean Substack</a> helps us keep this work going. We’ve moved off Patreon, so come hang with us there for bonus content, live chats, and more systemic breakdowns served with a side of memes and rage.<hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

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On the Time to Lean podcast with Laura Danger and Crystal Britt, we dig into the often-overlooked realities of domestic labor, care work, and household inequity. Through sharp cultural critiques and discussions on trending topics, we explore the systemic issues that shape our homes and lives. In each weekly episode, we tackle the topics that impact our lives, challenge the status quo, and uncover the hidden dynamics that influence how we live and work. Join us as we make time to lean into these crucial conversations and advocate for the value of the work that truly keeps the world turning.Laura, @thatdarnchat, is an educator and advocate. Crystal Britt, @itscrystalbritt, is a coach and licensed therapist in California. Find us on IG or join us on Patreon @ timetoleanpod for Ad-Free episodes, resources, book clubs, weekly virtual meet-ups and so much more!Check us out on Substack for Ad-Free episodes and supplemental resources! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.