Therapist and 'Crush Coach" Calvin Burnap returns to talk about the dangers of abandoning yourself, the importance of internal boundaries, and why being ice cold in breakups is actually generous.    Mentioned in the episode: <a href="https://thecrushcoach.com/">The Crush Coach</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thecrushcoach/">The Crush Coach on Instagram</a> | <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/drdevonprice/">Dr. Devon Price</a> | <a href="https://relationship-anarchy.com/about/">Relationship Anarchy</a> | <a href="https://www.gottman.com/">Gottman Institute</a> | <a href= "https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication">Nonviolent Communication</a> | <a href= "https://bookshop.org/a/100184/9780060957025">I thought We'd Never Speak Again</a> | <a href= "https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joanna_Macy">Joanna Macy</a> Follow us: mistakescast@gmail.com | <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/">https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/</a> Logo design by roy franklin: <a href= "http://www.whateverfactory.org/">www.whateverfactory.org</a>

Ep 78: Coming Out as Poly with Tabitha Kirkland

Non monogamy for imperfect people. Hosted by a queer therapist and her husband of 15 years. Sarah & Alex share their experiences opening their marriage, and interview guests about the struggles & rewards of doing relationships your own way. Mistakes Were Made is part advice, part confession, part culture critique. But it's all about learning from our missteps and stumbling toward liberation. Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/. Logo design by roy franklin of the Whatever Factory - https://www.whateverfactory.org/.