Are the same dynamics screwing up our relationships also hampering our social movements? Sarah and Alex talk to activist and law professor Dean Spade about the romance myth, capitalism and love in this f*cked up world. Mentioned in the episode: <a href= "https://bookshop.org/a/100184/9781643756462">Love in a F*cked Up World</a> | <a href="http://deanspade.net">DeanSpade.net</a> | <a href="https://www.deathpanel.net/">The Death Panel</a> | <a href="https://truthout.org/series/movement-memos/">Movement Memos</a> Also by Dean Spade: <a href= "https://bookshop.org/a/100184/9781839762123">Mutual Aid</a> | <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/100184/9780822360407">Normal Life: Administrative Violence, Critical Trans Politics, and the Limits of Law</a> mistakescast@gmail.com | <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/">https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/</a> Logo design by roy franklin: <a href= "http://www.whateverfactory.org/">www.whateverfactory.org</a> Links to bookshop.org are affiliate links. Any proceeds will support this podcast!

Ep 52: How (Not to) Break up

Non monogamy for imperfect people. Hosted by a queer therapist and her husband of 15 years. Sarah & Alex share their experiences opening their marriage, and interview guests about the struggles & rewards of doing relationships your own way. Mistakes Were Made is part advice, part confession, part culture critique. But it's all about learning from our missteps and stumbling toward liberation. Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/. Logo design by roy franklin of the Whatever Factory - https://www.whateverfactory.org/.