THE HEALING LOOP - the cycle that brings you back to yourself.You know you're in the loop. That's one thing. Knowing how to get out of it is another thing entirely. The Fantasy Loop™ is the seven-stage cycle that keeps you attached to unavailable love - and it has an answer. Every stage of the fantasy loop has a healing response, and together those responses are the Healing Loop.In Episode 326 of Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis breaks down the Healing Loop - the seven-stage way out of The Fantasy Loop - and shows exactly how the two cycles speak to each other.In this episode:Why activation isn't love, and how we mistake anxiety for chemistry and uncertainty for excitementWhy potential is not a relationship, and what to ask about who someone actually is todayHow you end up trying to get today's person to repair yesterday's wound, and why they can'tWhy healthy love can feel boring at first, and what "boring" is actually telling your nervous systemThe Healing Loop, all seven stages: Awareness & Truth, Regulate & Stabilize, Choose Reality Over Fantasy, Heal the Wound, Reclaim Self & Strengthen Identity, Integrate & Live It, Open to Healthy LoveThe goal was never to stop feeling this. The goal is to know what to do when you feel it. The fantasy loop taught you to chase. The healing loop teaches you to return.You're not broken. You're becoming.Take the free Fantasy Loop Quiz to find out which stage you're in: https://quiz.thefantasyloop.comIf this one hit, send it to the person who's been telling you about their situationship for six months.🌀 The Fantasy Loop™: https://thefantasyloop.com🧠 Take the Free Quiz: https://quiz.thefantasyloop.com🔄 The Truth Reset Tool + Free PDF Toolkit: https://truth.thefantasyloop.com📗 Becoming My Own F-ing Soulmate: http://amazon.com/dp/B0GGCHPJR3📗 Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict: https://secretlifenovel.com📩 Weekly Newsletter: https://thebriannedavis.substack.com📧 [email protected]🎧 LISTEN & FOLLOWApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-life-podcast/id1521171499Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Z3zp6rOdfvRV0C6DiubyQiHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-secret-life-podcast-69193168/Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/3e06b1db-9203-4328-978b-55a96c611861/secret-lifePandora: https://pandora.app.link/XpwUWGiaGmbFollow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/secretlifepodcastFollow on Facebook: https://facebook.com/secretlifepodcastSubscribe, rate, and share with someone who needs to hear this.If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, or sexual abuse - resources are at secretlifepodcast.comSecret Life Podcast is hosted by Brianne Davis - author, relationship and recovery-informed coach, and creator of The Fantasy Loop™. 16+ years of personal recovery. Every Monday. No filter.Copyright © Just B Productions. All rights reserved.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy