In this episode, we’re throwing out the tired, generic style advice that’s been making women feel like they’re getting it “wrong” for years. You don’t need another list of “must-haves”, body shape diagrams, or colour rules – you need to start asking one powerful question:“Is this me?”Not:Does this flatter my figure?Is this the right colour for my undertone?Is this on trend for my age?Those questions are rooted in shame, judgment and external rules. This conversation is about coming back to you.In this episode, I talk about:Why generic style rules are failing you (and why they feel so flat and boring)The problem with shame-based advice like “does this flatter me?”Replacing “Is this flattering?” with “Is this me?” as your core style filterHow your current wardrobe is already full of clues about your true styleWhat your home, decor and environment reveal about what you’re genuinely drawn toHow your upbringing, music, culture and memories quietly shape your tasteWhy we’ve never been taught to trust our instincts with style – and how to change thatA simple process to start decoding your personal style from what you already ownYou’ll learn:How to spot the pieces you actually love versus the ones you “should” wearHow to use your wardrobe, your home and even your Pinterest saves as a style mood boardHow to stop feeling like you’re “failing” at style and start feeling at home in your clothesPractical questions to ask yourself when you try something on so you know instantly if it’s youTry this after you listen:Go to your wardrobe and pull out the 5 things you wear on repeatAsk: What do these have in common? Shape, colour, fabric, mood?Then walk around your home and notice the same patterns in your decorStart building your outfits from those clues – not from someone else’s rulebookIf you’re ready to stop outsourcing your style to strangers on the internet and start trusting your own instincts, this episode is for you. Sign-up to Substack for more advice here https://lisagillbe.substack.comHere's my Instagram - follow Lisa here: https://www.instagram.com/lisegillbestylist/?hl=en