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out of 11441 ratings.

Great information and entertaining

by Lauraannterp on
Rating: ★★★★★

I appreciate the way the guys disseminate information in humorous ways and get a lot of enjoyment out of their show. They are vulnerable and authentic and I enjoy the guests they have on the show as well. I find myself making recommendations to the podcast to friends/family often after I tune in. You’re doing a great job guys! Keep up the good work!


by KHallHair on
Rating: ★★★★★

Just finished listening to episode #749. Boy did I need to hear this! It’s amazing how the universe puts people in your way when you need it and your open to it! That’s the AOC fam! I have been struggling lately with toxic relationships especially in the workplace. I have been distancing myself naturally just because I knew I needed to but did not have the skills to handle it while distancing. This episode was amazing and helped me 1. Feel better about it and 2. Gave me tools to navigate myself through this process properly. THANK YOU guys! You’re such a huge help to so many!

Great show

by Maze Decker on
Rating: ★★★★★

It is an awesome show that everyone needs to listen to. There are so many helpful tips in here that will help anyone on the daily. Love the choice of guests too!

Great stuff

by anyage on
Rating: ★★★★★

Thanks for bringing me through some tough times. I listen while jogging.Love it!


by muffen stuffer on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

You guys are douche bags. It is truly hard to express my feelings in any other way.

Such a Scam and Boarderline Identity Theft

by Runners Gotta Run on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

These guys have taken to using the last name of the FORMER host in attempts to make people think he is still involved. So sketchy!! AJ “Harbinger” has no relation to Jordan Harbinger the former host of this podcast. If AOC was still producing quality content without Jordan, why would they falsely use his last name? Go check out Jordan’s show if you miss the old episodes.

5 Stars

by KellyHollinsworth on
Rating: ★★★★★

This podcast came to me at a time in my life where I am both depressed and recovering from physical illness. I was so tired of being stuck where I was, without knowing how to begin to pull myself out of the dark. I have been listening to your show for months now and I gain something every single podcast I join in on. You have given me motivation, direction and a sense of commitment to my own happiness. Thanks guys!

Not what it used to be

by jkamp801 on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

The interviews seemed half a**ed and not worth the time... have found another one that brings the value this used to.


by Monkey Trick on
Rating: ★★★☆☆

So this one has changed and evolved. In the beginning, it was a little cringe inducing but had a decent foundation. There were years when they were 90%. Now it seems like they are trying to shoehorn content. Once or twice a week I have to bail on an episode because the guest is a bro-douche and they don’t call them out. They do a good job most of the time.

Any network

by only1amsa on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

...that gives a platform to Mike Boudet is not a network I will support. Really liked the podcast but as long as ranks are shared with the likes of a person like that, I won’t listen.

Episodes 748,749

by uticakarate on
Rating: ★★★★★

Excellent content. I’ve come across your podcast and YouTube over the years but as I’m in a relationship largely ignored it but I’m glad I choose to listen. Spot on with so much of the tactics and will be using this to make my experience with people better. Learn to accept and move around toxic relationships without burning the boats.

These dudes rock

by Proemm photo on
Rating: ★★★★★

Been listening for a couple years now and always provide value to my life. Love all the advice and suggestions on becoming a better person. These guys have guided me to think about how I can value to my personal and professional relationships. Thanks Johnny and AJ

A request....

by DriftingMama on
Rating: ★★★★★

No need to respond guys. Just a quick request: I’d love to hear you guys talk about Toxic Tribalism and the impact it has had on relationships. Many of us are struggling with the very strong expectations under the influence of the current political sphere. I have had friends become angry with me for not taking a stronger stance on my political leanings in both social settings as well as on social media. Some have even gone so far as to say it is my duty to speak up against the wrongdoings and mentality of the other side. They become VERY agitated with me if I try to take a more neutral or peace keeping stance. I don’t want to do this anymore. It feels ugly and dividing. It’s not fun. I know that irrespective of what your political leanings might be - everyone is feeling this pressure. And it’s also putting a serious crunch on the development of new friendships. I will be the first to admit that I have on many occasions in the last couple of years - avoided becoming friends with someone once I learned what their political stance is. Now that I’m aware of Toxic Tribalism, I’m working to change this. Ten years ago, this was a non-issue for most of us. What the hell happened? Considering that the culture is currently evenly split down the middle on the political front - this means many of us are missing out in meaningful connections with nearly 50% of those we meet. How can we navigate this? How can we, myself included, look past these toxic tribalism expectations? I’m tired of this. I know I’m missing out on some pretty great moments as a result of this. Others are too. We need your input on this - this is quite literally destroying many relationships before they have even had a chance to start. Thank you guys. And much love to you and your mission to help others. Keep it going.

Terrible show now

by rachael46282949 on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

What happened? They fired Jordan. Show went down the tubes.

Ok but not great

by gasping_for_air* on
Rating: ★★☆☆☆

I started to listen to this podcast a few months ago and liked it at first. However, as I got further along I found the the hosts to be stiff and scripted. There is an element of inauthenticity to this podcast. I don’t think that the content is entirely bad, they have great guests but at the end of the day this podcast is a sales pitch for their self help seminars and whatever else their sponsors are asking them to sling.

Great show!

by Madrock_16 on
Rating: ★★★★★

This show has great information and is applicable to everyone’s. I enjoy the information, and it has helped me be a better man.

Host Change?

by Luna Basil on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

I didn’t realize how much I loved Jordan Harbinger until he was suddenly gone. I’m so glad I found his new show because the quality of the AOC interviews has plummeted. I really tried to keep aoc in my library but the content is so lackluster. I tried. I listened to aoc for 4 years and sadly, it’s time to break up.

Enjoying the new format

by TheRealSoCalHoosier on
Rating: ★★★★★

I’ve been a listener for years and have attended the week long boot camp. I am a few months behind in episodes, but I want to say I am enjoying the new format. The idea of stacking concepts and building upon them has made it much easier for me to put the lessons and ideas into practical use. Keep up the great work!

We’re did the old host go.!!

by lime HERO on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

Who are these people .???


by This Artist on
Rating: ★★★★★

I love the verbalizing you did with your kids (including our inner children as well) that just laid it all out so simply; just a moment as effective people take to take it one step beyond the generic “I’ll have a good day” to “what is a good day really?” That little piece possibly can save lives, I am sure of it and so easy to implement for anything, probably how I am responding with it right now.

Lost its Charm

by Sage Kaiba on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

They lost their charm when they lost Jordan and Jason.


by Katobrown on
Rating: ★★★★★

Art of Charm is very inspiring, to me and has continued to help me grow as a person.

The Magic and "Charm" of AoC is Gone Without Jordan

by Nn18111111999999 on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

I can't wait to see these two conniving hacks fail since they maliciously fired Jordan. They now relish in the thriving success of what Jordan built. But I can see from the reviews that this sinking ship is already under water. That makes me so happy!

I miss Jordan Harbinger!

by Hapa-Biker on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

I miss Jordan Harbinger! What happened???

Not credible for women

by Yogirl111 on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

I have listened to and enjoyed this show in the past. I was very disappointed to hear the hosts reference coaching they received from Jordan Peterson. You cannot have the privilege of coaching women if you are being coached by a person who believes that women are biologically inferior. These are immature and hurtful beliefs that undermine your skills and value as coaches.

Good content, BUT...

by Jturner221221 on
Rating: ★★★☆☆

The way the two host manage dialogue with one another (particularly around their services) can sound like used car salesman trying to give you a subversive pitch without you knowing it’s happening. It almost undermines the kind of honesty and authenticity they champion in some of the content. It doesn’t flow well. Kind of annoying.

Destiny's Child Without Beyonce

by dockovich on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

I listened to this show for years while Jordan hosted. Now we're left with these two and....I'm out. This thing is gutted....sounds like an infomercial.

Ethical Issues

by AlpineAnnie on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

It is so hard to continue to follow a podcast after Jordan was booted out in such an unprofessional way. I can't listen anymore because I just know the hosts are backstabbing jerks. And stealing his name was ***really*** weird.

New format is actually better IMHO

by @rubenomega on
Rating: ★★★★★

I was pleasantly surprised by the new format, as I hadn't listened to this podcast in a couple years. I found the former host somewhat crass and arrogant, and his interview style gave me the impression that he thought he was more knowledgable than his interviewee. Now, when I rediscovered the podcast, I find the current hosts more relatable and professional, discusing a wider breadth of topics.

What happened?

by RobotZer0 on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

I noticed Jordan hadn’t been on in a while, and I also noticed the episodes weren’t as good as they use to be. I’m thinking it’s related. I’ve been holding on waiting for it to bounce back, but I’m giving up. No longer a quality relevant podcast

This show was Jordan, and they kicked him out

by EdmoreMark on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

Jordan was a great host and interviewer, unfortunately he was kicked out and now this show is worthless.

Used to be good

by Steve the great ii on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

I used to love this show before they pushed Jordan out the door. AJ and Johnny, no thank you.


by jmackley4444 on
Rating: ★★★★★

AJ and Johnny have an ability to brilliantly breakdown self-development topics to make them relatable and easier to understand /apply in your life. It shows how well they study and research for each podcasts.. well worth a listen!

I miss Jordan

by Ffejro on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

Not too sure what happened, but it seems a miss now without Jordan.

Don’t like new host

by MichaelDouglasMagic on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

I am really disappointed in the quality of the show since it’s founder was pushed out of the company. Serious ethical issues. It once offered great value but no longer.

It’s great

by Alucasaron on
Rating: ★★★★★

It’s obvious that the hosts have thorough experience in the things they teach. Worth the listen

New hosts, worse show.

by FerociousCorgi69 on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

Since Jordan Harbinger left this show is just not the same. Switching over to his solo podcast. Don’t know him or any of these guys personally, but I’m more loyal to his takes / guests than I am the AOC brand. It is what it is.

Too much self promotion & advertising

by PAndersonC12 on
Rating: ★★☆☆☆

While the core content of the show can be interesting and relevant, lately, there is so much self promotion, advertising their own “products & services”, and third party paid ads, that I can no longer justify the time it takes to separate the wheat from the chaff. Removed this show from my subscribe list.

The Art of Parm

by Scribblepinch on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

Not the same since Jordan Harbinger and Jason DeFillippo left. Should be renamed 'The Art of Parm' because this is nothing but cheese now.

Great guests

by lifeisbeautiful88 on
Rating: ★★★★★

Overall great pod cast. Truly enjoy listening and growing from some of these episodes

Relevant, helpful, & fun

by Acorn74 on
Rating: ★★★★★

This podcast is one of the best for understanding and enhancing human dynamics. AJ, Johnny & guests share research-based strategies and hacks for contributing more value in relationships & interaction. Whether you seek to improve a few specific skills, enhance a friendship or romantic connection, or overcome social anxiety, their podcast has plenty of info you can use, delivered in an engaging manner. Definitely recommend!

Not Just for the Fellas

by Pashtea on
Rating: ★★★★★

So thankful to have stumbled upon this podcast when looking into tips on the Art of Conversation. Have listened to several episodes and am starting to utilize the lessons in them to network and one day start my own business. Definitely not a podcast just for guys even though it's hosted and produced by men. The topics and tips in the episodes can help in many ways whether in your personal or professional relationships and especially within your own mindset and self confidence. I excellent podcast!

All Charm No Smarm

by Katie Joy B. on
Rating: ★★★★★

AJ & Johnny bring valuable information and great personality to the table! What also helps them stick out is the genuine way they interact with their guests. It's always clear that they respect them and genuinely believe in what they're doing without throwing false compliments around. Truly a breathe of fresh air in todays podcast world!

Best way to start my day

by CasperEthereal on
Rating: ★★★★★

I love listening on my way into work. It helps me get into a motivated and positive daily mindset while I’m working on improving myself. Highly recommend it.

Used to Be Better

by Guest1111112222233333 on
Rating: ★★☆☆☆

The current version of the show is over produced and too much of Jordan’s incessant interjections on the topic, rather than the actual expert... we got it... you think your insight is why we listen. It’s not, we’re hear to listen to you conduct an interview with the expert.

Jordan harbinger was way better

by Mishamash007 on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

These guys sound like they are reading a cheesy script. Horrible voices. I liked it much better when it was Jordan Harbinger.

The Definition of Dumpster Fire

by Jason DeFillippo on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

These guys are a joke. Taking credit for all their downloads when they fired the team who made the show what it WAS and are taking credit for other people's hard work. They should rename the show to 2 Broke Drunks. I wonder if Johnny ever reads the financials to see how everyone gets paid because he may find it enlightening.

Favorite self development podcast

by Chelsea Xandra on
Rating: ★★★★★

I’m a 27 year old woman and I’ve recently re-discovered the Art of Charm podcast. I fell off the podcast a couple of years ago, but I gave it another shot recently since AJ and Johnny were hosting. The episodes have tactics that are very well researched, articulated, and they are easy to listen to. Luckily there’s been a backlog of episodes that I could catch up on to keep me busy. My only wish is there were more episodes for me to listen to during my commute; it’s become a daily routine!

They Know How to Zero In

by EnjoyingtheLight on
Rating: ★★★★★

Concise and relevant. Great discourse. No fluff.

These guys don't practice what they preach

by Jenni319 on
Rating: ★☆☆☆☆

What AJ and Johnny talk about on the show is opposite of how they treat others. How ironic they can't hold together their own relationships with each other let alone with other people. Johnny is even more clueless to all the times AJ talks about firing him behind his back. I wish them the best of luck together.