Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2693: Jacob Lund Fisker of EarlyRetirementExtreme.com guides us through the delicate process of aligning your partner with your frugal lifestyle and early retirement dreams. He offers practical tips on leading by example, demonstrating the benefits through your actions, and smartly navigating conversations to inspire a mutual journey toward financial independence. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://earlyretirementextreme.com/how-do-i-get-my-spouse-to-go-along-with-my-frugal-plans.html Quotes to ponder: "The first and most important thing is that a person sounds a whole lot smarter and more intelligent when you agree with what the person is saying." "Most people (and especially children) will follow your example rather than your suggestions." "If you want your spouse to adopt some change, another thing to try is to find something they are familiar with." Episode references: Tumbleweed Houses: https://www.tumbleweedhouses.com/ The concept of Freecycling: https://www.freecycle.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2692: Paula Pant from AffordAnything.com shares her journey from celebrating a 77% savings rate to realizing its limited value in achieving financial freedom. Through a detailed analysis, she illustrates the importance of distinguishing between savings for deferred spending and investing for wealth growth, urging readers to focus on investing rates over savings rates for true financial independence. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://affordanything.com/77-savings-rate-means-nothing/ Quotes to ponder: "Savings is money that you’re setting aside for the future. Which means that “savings” is deferred spending." "Savings won’t bring you financial freedom. Investing will." “Investing,” on the other hand, allows you to supercharge your net worth." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2691: Mark Dennis of FinancialFinesse.com sheds light on the complexities of borrowing from your 401(k). He outlines the seductive ease of tapping into retirement savings for immediate financial needs but cautions against the long-term repercussions such actions may have on one's financial health and retirement planning. Dennis meticulously explores the benefits and pitfalls, emphasizing smarter alternatives to safeguard one’s financial future. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.financialfinesse.com/2017/10/23/is-it-ever-ok-to-borrow-from-your-401k/ Quotes to ponder: "Plundering our retirement piggy banks can be tempting when a financial emergency arises, but this type of short-term fix may have some long-term consequences that are more expensive than we realize." "Once you dip into your retirement stash and use it to relieve some type of financial pain, you can begin to slide down a slippery financial behavior slope." "Bottom line: make sure you have carefully considered all other alternatives before you undo much of the hard work you have already invested in growing your retirement nest egg." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2690: Dr. Margaret Rutherford's enlightening article sheds light on the profound importance of apologies in strengthening marriages. By navigating through the common pitfalls of a bad apology, Rutherford emphasizes how genuine apologies foster integrity, build trust, and maintain mutual respect between partners, serving as a vital component for a healthy and enduring relationship. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/three-vital-reasons-to-say-im-sorry-in-your-marriage/ Quotes to ponder: "Love means you say you’re sorry and you mean it. Sincerely." "Saying you’re sorry means that you recognize your behavior has an impact on those around you." "It’s a gift that reflects your integrity." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2689: Dave Cahill's transformative journey with JackieBeck.com sheds light on overcoming $17,000 in student loan debt within a mere 54 days. Through extreme frugality and strategic planning, Cahill and his wife turned their financial desperation into liberation, offering valuable insights into the power of dedication and financial freedom. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.jackiebeck.com/how-we-paid-off-17000-in-student-loan-debt-in-54-days/ Quotes to ponder: "Our methods may not be realistic in your circumstances. But don’t be afraid to bet on yourself and take reasonable risks to achieve debt freedom." "In the darkest moments, our vision for a better future was what kept us moving forward." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2688: Lisa Harrison of MadMoneyMonster.com shares her journey of resisting lifestyle inflation, especially the allure of upgrading her living situation, which many find relatable. Through candid experiences, she underscores the importance of financial prudence, the power of minimalism, and the value of instilling good spending habits to secure a more stable and fulfilling future. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://madmoneymonster.com/2016/02/03/resisting-lifestyle-inflation/ Quotes to ponder: "It’s worry that is born out of fear, fear that you can’t comfortably afford to do something." "Committing to minimalism has given us focus and the ability to say NO to unnecessary clutter in our lives." "My emotional, arbitrary indicators of wealth have nothing to do with what we need or what makes the best financial sense." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2687: Liz Davidson's transformation from money fear to financial savvy underscores a powerful journey of overcoming financial anxiety. Through a candid account on Frugalwoods.com, Davidson shares how eschewing debt, embracing frugality, and educating herself on personal finance turned her dread into confidence. This tale isn't just about saving pennies; it's a roadmap for anyone looking to wield money as a tool for life, rather than a source of fear. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.frugalwoods.com/2015/06/02/i-used-to-be-afraid-of-money-but-things-have-changed/ Quotes to ponder: "I used to be afraid of money. Not in the sense that I thought it was going to jump out of a dark alley at me, more in the vein of fearing the unknown." "I’m forced to confess that I was cheap-stupidly cheap and a far cry from strategically frugal." "Money is only a tool, it will take you wherever you wish, but it won’t replace you as the driver." Episode references: Personal Finance For Dummies: https://a.co/d/cAMarbU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2686: J.D. Roth delves into the emotionally charged issue of whether or not to provide financial assistance to adult children, using a reader's personal dilemma as a springboard. Through insights from personal experiences and expert research, Roth explores the fine line between helping and enabling, offering thought-provoking perspectives on financial independence, responsibility, and the potential pitfalls of economic support. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.getrichslowly.org/giving-money-to-adult-children/ Quotes to ponder: "The more dollars adult children receive, the fewer they accumulate, while those who are given fewer dollars accumulate more." "Giving adult children financial support is, generally speaking, a bad idea." "What is the effect of cash gifts that are knowingly ear-marked for consumption and the propping up of a certain lifestyle? We find that the giving of such gifts is the single most significant factor that explains lack of productivity among the adult children of the affluent." Episode references: The Millionaire Next Door: https://www.amazon.com/Millionaire-Next-Door-Surprising-Americas/dp/1589795474 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2685: Chris Reining explores the nuanced relationship between money and happiness in "3 Ways to Hack Your Financial Happiness," offering insights from personal experience and research. By critiquing the common pursuit of wealth as a source of happiness and suggesting practical strategies for fostering genuine contentment, Reining illuminates the path to financial well-being that transcends mere accumulation. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://chrisreining.com/3-ways-to-hack-your-financial-happiness/ Quotes to ponder: "Many of us equate money to happiness. And it's true, sort of. Research has shown that happiness rises with income, but only up to $75,000." "Buying stuff is the equivalent of getting drunk, it only temporarily soothes our unhappiness." "Finding happiness comes from within, it's not something that can be purchased from Amazon." Episode references: Carl Jensen's speech, "FI-landia is a lie,": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=av4nIb5_AAE&ab_channel=EconoMeConference Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2684: Kumiko of TheBudgetMom.com tackles the common dilemma of whether to close a credit card after paying it off. She weighs the pros, like avoiding temptation and minimizing fees, against the cons, such as the potential negative impact on your credit score. Her conclusion is nuanced, advocating for keeping the account open under certain conditions, especially when planning significant financial moves like buying a house. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.thebudgetmom.com/should-you-cancel-your-credit-card-after-paying-it-off/ Quotes to ponder: "The number one reason most people choose to close their credit cards is to avoid temptation." "If your credit card is charging you fees, you should think about closing it." "Closing a credit card account can hurt you if you are attempting to get a mortgage." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices